May 3, 2011
Rumor Has It post. We'll call him Nate.) Nate ended up taking Kevin out to a nice dinner and they had a good time. Kevin was texting me every time Nate went to the Bathroom. (Nate apparently went to the bathroom a few times there, maybe he was doing lines. "Hunny you got alittle white powder on your nose.") Kevin said, "I really like him but we are at that 'I already sucked your face what do we talk about now' phase." I told him that some small talk is best like, what do you do, hobbies, interests, family etc. Are you a serial killer? Do you do inappropriate things with gerbils? What's your bank account number? You know, 'the getting to know you' stuff. Kevin called me after the date and it turns out towards the end of the Date, Nate said he had something to confess. He told Kevin he is still kind of involved with someone (they live together) and it's complicated.
There's those dreaded two words again. If you're on the other end of those words it's rather disappointing. I could hear the disappointment in Kevin's voice. Kevin said, "It's the whole Ex situation all over again. This is just my luck! Why do I attract these unhappily married gay men?" History sure is repeating itself. (Read 'Bad Decisions' post for some back story on Kevin and The Ex) Truth be told I believe the reason why Kevin attracts them is because he himself is a happy person. He is a riot! He constantly does and says hilariously stupid things. I can see someone whom is currently unsatisfied with their situation to attach themselves to Kevin like a hemorrhoid.
Friday night was fun alot of people showed up for Kevin's birthday. Which helped me out because then I didn't need to buy the lush all his drinks. We started out at Candida's. Andy and Brett showed up. It was good to see Andy. I hadn't seen him in awhile we still chat weekly though and he does periodically check up on me to see how I am. Andy had the DJ announce Kevin's birthday and put his name up on the big screen. When I said to him, "Could you be any cuter right now?" he smiled big and turned like 5 shades red. Brett is super nice he bought us all shots. I really am happy for Andy and I hope it continues. Bobby and Tina of course were a riot. Bobby with his shiny plump DSLs looking for his next romantic interest. And for such a little girl Tina has a ghetto black lady ass. I swear I could have practically sat on it. It's like a bookshelf! Daddylicious was there with Ken Doll. Bobby noticed that when Daddy is with Ken he doesn't pay much attention to Kevin. (He usually tries to make out with him or playfully grabs him.) I still think Daddy must have feelings for Ken. All signs point to yes. We don't need a magic 8 ball for that.
As I'm talking to Kevin, Nate walks through the door. At this point I'm thinking wow he is totally following Kevin around. For someone I have never ever seen before expect for last weekend he certainly is popping up a lot here. I was chatting with Tina and when I turned around there was Kevin and Nate at a table in the corner being all close. Yeah just friends my ass. I told Tina the situation and she said "Oh it totally looks like they are gonna make out." I looked at her and said, "Yeah looks like bad decisions in the making tonight!" Some of the gang was heading over to the Stonewall. Allan was already there waiting for us, Harold apparently is dating a drag queen that was performing there and of course Nate wanted to go as well.
After saying our goodbyes to the party pooppers that decided to stay at Candida's we were off. Nate was waiting for us, well for Kevin by the door to the Stonewall. He looked eager, like a dog that just got a new bone. After about 30 minutes of being there, things heated up a bit between Kevin and Nate. There was some kissing, cock grabbing and closeness. Yeah just a friend level! (Sarcasm) I don't grab my friend's cocks, oh wait! I do, but it's always in a nonsexual, gay handshake, "hello there" kind of way! I did put a stop to it because Kevin was really drunk and I didn't want him to regret it later. Kevin being close with Nate like that, states he accepted Nate's situation even though he does not.
-35% of men who use a personal site for dating are already involved in a relationship or married.
-33% of men report having sex outside of their regular relationship in this past year.
-Only 25% of people in the world report that they are 100% monogamous.